Which is better? If Im weak and afraid of pain.

After 自然分娩, will 陰道 become much bigger than before? some guys don't like it and then have excuse to find another woman.

自然分娩: some women wait with pain for 10 hours before they give birth, right?

My friend chose 剖腹: she said the wound in her belly remains painful for several years, even the wound was fully recovered from outside, not sure its psychological pain or the inside wound takes a long time to recover.  She said everytime she makes love with her husband, she still feels the pain of the wound.

Also my friend showed me that her nipples are much bigger than before, so she has to be cautious when she wears bikini.