im studying in england at the moment, all of my friends all really good with their parent. they tell their parents everything about school life, relationship, friends, or sex...
i wish i can talk to my parents like my friend, i can't talk stuff to them like school, relationship, friends or sex because first, they not allow me a boyfriend until 16, second they never ask me about my school life, all the care is marks and exam. Is sex really a big deal? all my friend have sex and tell their parents and they doesn't care. But if i tell my parents, they will kill me.
Sometimes i really want to tell them everything about my happness or unhappness but they never know wats going on.

東西方的文化差異ｍａ．．．．

十六歲就肯俾你拍拖都唔算專制吧！你是否和父母同住在英國呢？關心你的考試成績，係佢地比較目標為本，但我相信他們是關心你的呢！去英國讀書唔平既。

年紀輕未能知道怎樣的男女關係才是正確，即係你的朋友這樣做，未必等如他們是對的。

性係唔係一件重要的事呢？性可以令人染上性病，性可以帶來一條生命！複雜的關係亦會影響你和將來另一半的關係．．．

你認為父母只關心你的成績而不關心你?其實，佢地送你到英國讀書，都係想你讀好d書，將來條路易行d，所以關心你ge學業成績好正常呀。你話父母無關心過你其他野，咁你有無主動同佢地講過你平時生活上遇到ge野先，可能你唔同佢地講，佢地以為係你唔想講呢。
至於拍拖方面，如果你得一個人響外國，太細個拍拖，父母梗係擔心la，又驚你比人呃，你都話你d同學仔響性方面係比較開放la，父母最驚就係你比人搞大個肚，連自己都未湊得掂，點湊bb ar。所以暫時黎講，都係專心讀書先la。得閒咪主動d同父母溝通多d lor.

愛在心裡口難開

你看到朋友的父母唔在意某些事情
表裡可是合一呢
佢地可能係擔心得無能為力
亦可能是漠不關心早早放棄

人與人之間的相處形式有好多種
最重要是你先要為對方設想
然後有所行動才是 considerate 的做法

後生女
你要 sex 無人阻到你
但做之前
在自己立場考慮 : 真的享受嗎 ?   安全嗎 ?  
在父母立場考慮 : 會讓佢地擔/傷心嗎 ?   

好老實講
父母供書教學
每個遊戲都有規則要遵守